Creating joyful relationships by using a modern framework that combines guidance on communication, safe relating practices, and intention-based interactions.
Have you ever had a challenging relationship?
Are you having one right now? Or more likely, several? Have you ever been in a situation where you felt unclear about your “relationship status”? Do you sometimes wish that you could be more open and clear with people about how you’d like to relate with them, but not sure how to have the conversation? Have you ever had a pattern of finding yourself in relationships that don’t seem to be serving you or meeting your needs, but don’t know how to break the cycle? Are there people in your life that you love and want to share more love with, but feel afraid to talk about your true feelings and intentions?
If you answered yes,
IAR is for you.
If you answered yes to any (or maybe all!) of these questions, IAR is for you. I created IAR for everyone, and no matter what type of relationship you’re seeking, or seeking to improve, whether it be romance, friendship, business, or family, IAR can help make it better, easier, and more fun.
What is the purpsose of IAR?
To short-circuit old patterns and set a new standard for joyful relationships.
The purpose of IAR is to end the useless cycles of drama that plague most human relationships. IAR seeks to provide an entirely new Operating System for all types of human relationships – romantic bonds, friendships, business relationships, partnerships, family ties, companionships – a new system which inherently “short circuits” the old programs and patterns that ultimately set us up for disappointment and pain. One purpose of IAR is to show that relationships don’t have to be hard, messy, and complicated. There is a better way.
IAR is meant to open up a whole new world of possibilities for the kinds of relationships we can have and is meant to set a new standard for how happy, fulfilled, satisfied, and safe we can feel in our relationships. It switches us from thinking about relationships like a game with winners and losers (“deprivation-obligation” mindset) and into a new frame of a new game called “joyful-celebration” where everybody’s a winner because we all get more of what we want, and nobody has to sacrifice themselves in the process.
Words from the Founder
"It seems to be common wisdom or a fact of life that relationships are inherently hard. I certainly have had the experience of challenging relationships in all areas of my life, from romance to friendship, business, and family. The great news is that relationships don’t actually have to be hard. That’s not to say that they won’t take effort, but there is a different way to approach relating and it happens to be pretty easy to learn and understand."
Vision Battlesword
IAR Founder and Workshop Host
Workshop Calendar
Learn about the New Paradigm of relationships, what tools are available to help build a foundation of healthy relating, and the basic form of Intentional Autonomous Relating by joining us in person at our next workshop.
What Others are Saying
IAR has been a powerful positive influence in my life. It taught me to relate to people differently and have a different perspective that makes sense. As a result I feel more whole as a person. Since taking the workshops I now know what needs I currently have that are being met or not being met in all my relationships. I’ve learned how expression of these needs and my boundaries around these needs is both powerful and freeing.
I am so thankful to have received this wisdom! The IAR method has helped my husband and I connect on a deeper level and taught us how to communicate our needs and feelings with appreciation for each other’s boundaries in ways we never thought possible! This impressive and exquisitely created method that comes from Vision’s own embodied experience and brilliance is a phenomenal catalyst that I highly recommend to anyone seeking a quantum upgrade to their communication skills and relationships. Thank you!
Learning about IAR completely changed my view of how I look at and approach personal relationships. We often hear about the importance of communication but we’re don’t really know HOW to do it properly. IAR breaks this down in a clear way on how to communicate with your partner and what your intentions are for the relationship. It’s changed the way I relate to bonding and how to differentiate various needs. This enables me to create meaningful containers with shared goals and desires.
IAR is a transformation technology for establishing, creating and enhancing rich relationships. It has helped me remove any and all negative patterns in my personal relations and create meaningful relationships. If you haven’t explored IAR you’re missing out on what I’d consider the most revolutionary material for happiness, fulfillment and success in sex, love and romance.
I found IAR to be incredibly insightful and comprehensive. In our modern dating culture of ambiguous language and game playing, IAR provides a simple framework for communication. I think sometimes it can be challenging to ask for what you want, much less know what you want when it comes to relationships. IAR, not only defines the different channels of relationships, but gives clarity in how to understand which ones best fit your own life. It has been the best relationship workshop I have taken to date!
