Serena Kelley
Learning about IAR completely changed my view of how I look at and approach personal relationships. We often hear about the importance of communication but we’re don’t really know HOW to do it properly. IAR breaks this down in a clear way on how to communicate with your partner and what your intentions are for the relationship. It’s changed the way I relate to bonding and how to differentiate various needs. This enables me to create meaningful containers with shared goals and desires.
I’ve used IAR in my life to help me let go of relationships that did not have any shared goals, intentions or needs. Rather than forcing someone to give me what I want, I’ve been able to let a relationship go with no hurt feelings or dramatic exits, but rather an understanding that we are two separate people without enough common ground to cultivate a meaningful relationship.